Someone on my f'list synecdochic had a very similar post (http://synecdochic.livejournal.com/111282.html) last week!

I have issues with labels on fic, mostly because I labelled something "femslash" recently because it had hints of a f/f relationship (and their interactions were the focus of the story) but someone had commented and said "Wheres the femslash in this" *blinks* So yeah, now I hate labelling my fic because what I see might be different to what other people see!