Interesting bit of meta. I've wrestled with my interest in non-con/dub-con for a while, and interestingly, the more I've been exposed to it, the less it's become a kink. I think that might be the hooboy! slash phenomenon coming into play. At first, you're just excited to know that something exists and that other people do this thing. Then the first flush of joy and novelty wears off, and you start noticing just how bad so much of what you're reading is. And it's a lot harder to find 'good' dub-con than it is to find 'good' slash.