Hmm... I love the idea of loving the person, but my gay friends were pretty dismissive of a person being bi. Admittedly, I have not discussed it with anybody recently and the two guys I have had extended conversations with about sexual orientation were my own age(read old, in our fifties), out and fiercely proud - but they both (in separate discussions) were very dismissive of the concept of bi-sexuality. Steve said 'oh, please' and Mike's response was that if someone was bi - they just really weren't completely out of the closet yet. But we are all of an age and grew up in times where to be openly gay was an act of intense personal bravery. Maybe that is the root of their being a tad judgmental?