Not that this deserves an explanation, but...
Other than spammers (obviously), I've very rarely felt the need to ban anyone from my LJ, and never before someone I don't even know. I don't automatically friend people back when they friend me, but I consider this journal public. I don't mind that strangers read it.
Yesterday, I was friended by someone who instantly changed my policy. I got the "so-and-so has added you as a friend" email, and out of curiosity glanced over this person's profile. What I saw sent me straight to the admin console to get rid of him.
So here's the thing. I assume friending me was either a mistake or a joke. If your LJ comms or interests indicate you're a fanatical "Christian", yet you talk about wanting to find the perfect woman in the same sentence as mentioning places notorious for sex trafficking, and you're a member of communities that exist for the sole purpose of degrading women...kindly fuck off and die.
I am well aware that my fiction crosses taste or even moral boundaries for many people; but it's fiction and this is my space. If the above is how you represent your real life, you have no place in mine.
Yesterday, I was friended by someone who instantly changed my policy. I got the "so-and-so has added you as a friend" email, and out of curiosity glanced over this person's profile. What I saw sent me straight to the admin console to get rid of him.
So here's the thing. I assume friending me was either a mistake or a joke. If your LJ comms or interests indicate you're a fanatical "Christian", yet you talk about wanting to find the perfect woman in the same sentence as mentioning places notorious for sex trafficking, and you're a member of communities that exist for the sole purpose of degrading women...kindly fuck off and die.
I am well aware that my fiction crosses taste or even moral boundaries for many people; but it's fiction and this is my space. If the above is how you represent your real life, you have no place in mine.